A guy and a girl...friends or more???

      We might have heard this million times "whether a girl and a guy be friends forever??".Seriously, is it that hard for a guy and a girl to be friends?? where is this line tat separates friendship from a relationship?? Having a guy as your friend is a blessing in disguise. They can be a friend, a brother, a father and sometimes a mother too. We tend to get attached to them like they are ours to keep. Be it a boyfriend or a guy best friend, we want them to treat us special. We "GIRLS" like to show them off to the world like it's some sort of pride to have a guy on your side.

        People who are married to their best friends are the luckiest of the whole bunch. But when do we realize we are actually falling for that person? What actually leads to situations like this? Do guys sometimes get a wrong message from our act of goodwill? Few things guys should understand about girls.

• If a girl is talking crazy and being herself means she trusts you. 
• If she tells you everything, she is hoping you will listen to it and don't judge her.
• If she says she loves you, you have joined this elite group of people she cares for in her life.
• If she is staying up late and talking things that don't even make sense, then she needs you in her life.

        But if it's the way we treat our bestie then what about our boyfriend. What really makes the bestie different from the boyfriend?. 

         We get possessive, be it our guy bestie or boyfriend.We like their little hugs, little talks, and even their silence.Be it a boyfriend or a guy bestie, it all depends on how we see them. The invisible line is nothing but our mind that sees what we want to see and feels what we want to feel. So, all I want to say is that never confuse your feelings and don't over think stuff. Take one thing at a time and go with the flow, by the quote "IF YOU ARE MEANT TO BE TOGETHER, THEN YOU WILL BE".

(totally not related to this post :P P.S- Sura if you ever act all weird again, trust me you will be dead meat.)

"Relationships", are they really that complicated?

Hey guys, its been so long since I posted a blog...life kinda went busy. but am back and this blog is gonna be my comeback.Have you guys seen those statuses on FB saying and I quote " IN A COMPLICATED RELATIONSHIP"? I mean what is a complicated relationship anyway? How could two people make a relationship complicated?. As my bestie use to say,"Relationships are not complicated,people are".

              It's true I guess. What is there to complicate in a relationship anyway?. I think complications arise when we get too close. But then again, it's okay to be close with the person you love right!! I mean then what's the point of being in a relationship? I don't have any experience in this kind of things but I am gonna share a thing or two about it. First of all, I think the main reason for any sort of fights in a relationship is POSSESSIVENESS. The girls have it tooooo much and the guys never show it. It's okay to be possessive as long as it's healthy, in the sense both people understand the whole concept of it. If the girl is possessive on you, it's mainly because she is afraid of losing you. So guys, try to understand that. But there are girls who take it to the whole new level like expecting the guy to not to talk to any other girl except them, checking their phones, stalking them on facebook,etc. Girls give the guy some space, he loves you not someone else!!. So all I am saying now is try to give each other some space. let's call it a "SEPARATE TOGETHERNESS" (source: CARRIE BRADSHAW). 

                   Then comes these silly little fights which lead to the big ones. Guys a note to all of you, a girl remembers all the fights and the things you said during those fights. So think, I don't know a million times before you talk during a fight. Some fights are worth solving but some fights are not. Know this difference and the relevance of the problem before jumping to stupid conclusions.  This goes to the guys, a girl will cling to those fights until you put them to the grave, so even if the fault is hers, leave it. Because of your relationship worth more than those fights. 

           It became a trend among people nowadays, that it is essential to be in a relationship. This kind of relationship lasts no longer than a month or so. The relationship isn't something that you wear it to take it off when you don't like it. So think of a dozen times before you fall for someone and make sure it's because you love that person, not to earn some sort of status among your friends. 

                  One more thing to everyone, BREAK-UP is never an option. People break-up for so many reasons but am sure that it really doesn't have to end in a break-up. Learn to work on your differences. If you feel like you have lost that spark in your relationship,reignite it rather than putting it out. As I told you guys, am not an expert in these sort of things so I am just putting my views here. Anybody with any ideas and suggestions, even criticism about this post is wholeheartedly welcomed!!! :P :D

 P.S.- Guys try to be this kind of person, Girls will kill to fall in love with you. :P (notice the post below)

This is it, guys, it's all I know about relationships and the dramas. As I told before, people make it complicated so try to keep it simple and subtle. You really don't have to go the great lengths to impress someone. BE YOURSELF!!! If people don't like who you are then they are not worth falling for. My last message, more like a fact to all of you. Want to be happy, do these things, your life will change for better!!! :D