Sunday, February 1, 2015

A guy and a girl...friends or more???

      We might have heard this million times "whether a girl and a guy be friends forever??".Seriously, is it that hard for a guy and a girl to be friends?? where is this line tat separates friendship from a relationship?? Having a guy as your friend is a blessing in disguise. They can be a friend, a brother, a father and sometimes a mother too. We tend to get attached to them like they are ours to keep. Be it a boyfriend or a guy best friend, we want them to treat us special. We "GIRLS" like to show them off to the world like it's some sort of pride to have a guy on your side.




        People who are married to their best friends are the luckiest of the whole bunch. But when do we realize we are actually falling for that person? What actually leads to situations like this? Do guys sometimes get a wrong message from our act of goodwill? Few things guys should understand about girls.

  • If a girl is talking crazy and being herself means she trusts you. 
  • If she tells you everything, she is hoping you will listen to it and don't judge her.
  • If she says she loves you, you have joined this elite group of people she cares for in her life.
  • If she is staying up late and talking things that don't even make sense, then she needs you in her life.
        But if it's the way we treat our bestie then what about our boyfriend. What really makes the bestie different from the boyfriend?. 


         We get possessive, be it our guy bestie or boyfriend.We like their little hugs, little talks, and even their silence.Be it a boyfriend or a guy bestie, it all depends on how we see them. The invisible line is nothing but our mind that sees what we want to see and feels what we want to feel. So, all I want to say is that never confuse your feelings and don't over think stuff. Take one thing at a time and go with the flow, by the quote 
"IF YOU ARE MEANT TO BE TOGETHER, THEN YOU WILL BE".

(totally not related to this post :P P.S- Sura if you ever act all weird again, trust me you will be dead meat.)